CNY??? ( aka warning, superb long venting frustrations post)
WHy must we spring clean during the Cny?? Is it for the purpose of clearing away the old dust and so we can welcome Cny with a brand new start??If so, how come this job is not done by everyone in the family but only the mother???Or rather, most of the work the bulk is done by the mother. For the past 1 mth, i saw my mum cleaning here and there. Though she is very tired after she came back from work and yet she has to clear all the kitchen cabinets and clean them, clean her room, change our bedsheets, decroate the living room, clear our dust for us. I felt so helpless and useless watching her, wanting to offer my help and yet scare that she will find me more of a hindrance, and she always claim that she want to do the things slowly by herself. Haiz, and yet at the same time felt so xin tong for her, seeing her tires herself.
Somemore her bdae coming, haiz, seems like only me the only person remember, coz her bdae is the sat of the cny week so mabbe my whole family is too caught up with the cny craze that they seem to forget her bdae.
Felt real sad for her,lucky she dont read my blog, or else i wont know where to vent my frustrations.
Okie, for my elder sis, i noe, she is busi wif her job, her part time study and also her bf..fine, if it slip her mind (though deep down inside my heart, i still dont feel mind, after she is ur MUM, the person who raise u when you are small...how can you not remember her bdae.. it is not fine at all) even if she remember, seemingly she haf forgotten to mention or discuss with me and my sister what to buy for my mum. SHE IS THE ELDER SISTER AFTER ALL.WHAT HAPPEN...HELLO, if u noe, it is 1week later and becoz of cny in between no shops will be open, do u wan to wait until fri den buy...hello, obviously she had forgotten. I felt so dissappointed and unjustice for my beloved mum.
Okie, how about my younger sister, obviously IT HAD SLIPPED HER MIND SUMHOW ALSO, why, coz she sank into depression recently....hahahha..........that NOT AN EXCUSE. Since she can remember clearly which dae is her fren bdae (which just past), and this fren is someone she got to know for only let count ....1 mth plus onli. She can borrow money from my sister, she can find one day to go shopping for her fren bdae present, she can organise a bdae celebration for her, and she is the one MAIN orgainsier, and yet she dont give a damm to my mum bdae. Somemore, she have the money to buy her fren bdae present, and QUITE obviously she dont have the money to pay for the present that we bought for my mum. Yeah rite...so ironic right. Really feel like scolding her but scare my mum will know or hear it....so have not choice but vent my frustration here....okie, i almost done.
Tks blog for ur listening ear, at least my mum bdae present is settled and her card is also settled.
This is my mum bdae present, a pair of diamond earrings.
WHy must we spring clean during the Cny?? Is it for the purpose of clearing away the old dust and so we can welcome Cny with a brand new start??If so, how come this job is not done by everyone in the family but only the mother???Or rather, most of the work the bulk is done by the mother. For the past 1 mth, i saw my mum cleaning here and there. Though she is very tired after she came back from work and yet she has to clear all the kitchen cabinets and clean them, clean her room, change our bedsheets, decroate the living room, clear our dust for us. I felt so helpless and useless watching her, wanting to offer my help and yet scare that she will find me more of a hindrance, and she always claim that she want to do the things slowly by herself. Haiz, and yet at the same time felt so xin tong for her, seeing her tires herself.
Somemore her bdae coming, haiz, seems like only me the only person remember, coz her bdae is the sat of the cny week so mabbe my whole family is too caught up with the cny craze that they seem to forget her bdae.
Felt real sad for her,lucky she dont read my blog, or else i wont know where to vent my frustrations.
Okie, for my elder sis, i noe, she is busi wif her job, her part time study and also her bf..fine, if it slip her mind (though deep down inside my heart, i still dont feel mind, after she is ur MUM, the person who raise u when you are small...how can you not remember her bdae.. it is not fine at all) even if she remember, seemingly she haf forgotten to mention or discuss with me and my sister what to buy for my mum. SHE IS THE ELDER SISTER AFTER ALL.WHAT HAPPEN...HELLO, if u noe, it is 1week later and becoz of cny in between no shops will be open, do u wan to wait until fri den buy...hello, obviously she had forgotten. I felt so dissappointed and unjustice for my beloved mum.
Okie, how about my younger sister, obviously IT HAD SLIPPED HER MIND SUMHOW ALSO, why, coz she sank into depression recently....hahahha..........that NOT AN EXCUSE. Since she can remember clearly which dae is her fren bdae (which just past), and this fren is someone she got to know for only let count ....1 mth plus onli. She can borrow money from my sister, she can find one day to go shopping for her fren bdae present, she can organise a bdae celebration for her, and she is the one MAIN orgainsier, and yet she dont give a damm to my mum bdae. Somemore, she have the money to buy her fren bdae present, and QUITE obviously she dont have the money to pay for the present that we bought for my mum. Yeah rite...so ironic right. Really feel like scolding her but scare my mum will know or hear it....so have not choice but vent my frustration here....okie, i almost done.
Tks blog for ur listening ear, at least my mum bdae present is settled and her card is also settled.
This is my mum bdae present, a pair of diamond earrings.
posted by Elaine at 11:33 PM
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